Fight Against Cancer: कुछ यूं बेटे का साथ पाकर इस जंग में आगे बढ़ रही हैं Sonali Bendre

Sonali Bendre से जानें कैंसर के दौरान आने वाली चुनौतियों से निपटने के तरीके

अभिनेत्री ने कहा कि जब से रणवीर पैदा हुआ है, 'उसकी खुशी और देखभाल ही उनके और उनके पति गोल्डी बहल के लिए किसी और चीज की अपेक्षा प्राथमिकता रही है.'

उन्होंने लिखा, "और जब कैंसर ने अपना खराब सिर उठाया तो हमारी सबसे बड़ी उलझन थी कि हम उसे कैसे बताएंगे."

 

From the moment he was born 12 years, 11 months and 8 days ago, my amazing @rockbehl took ownership of my heart. From then on, his happiness and wellbeing have been the centre of anything @goldiebehl and I ever did. And so, when the Big C reared its ugly head, our biggest dilemma was what and how we were going to tell him. As much as we wanted to protect him, we knew it was important to tell him the full facts. We’ve always been open and honest with him and this time it wasn’t going to be different. He took the news so maturely… and instantly became a source of strength and positivity for me. In some situations now, he even reverses roles and takes on being the parent, reminding me of things I need to do! I believe that it’s imperative to keep kids involved in a situation like this. They are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for. It’s important to spend time with them and include them, rather than make them wait on the side-lines, not being told yet instinctively knowing everything. In our effort to protect them from the pain and realities of life, we might end up doing the opposite. I’m spending time with Ranveer right now, while he’s on summer vacation. His madness and shenanigans help me #SwitchOnTheSunshine. And today, we derive strength from each other #OneDayAtATime

A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Jul 18, 2018 at 11:29pm PDT

सोनाली और गोल्डी दोनों चाहते थे कि रणवीर सुरक्षित महसूस करे लेकिन वे पूरी सच्चाई भी बताना चाहते थे. 

High Grade Metastatic Cancer की शिकार हुईं सोनाली बेंद्रे, जानें इसके बारे में सबकुछ

लेकिन, अभिनेत्री हैरान रह गईं जब उनके बेटे ने इस खबर को परिपक्वता के साथ लिया और उनके लिए ताकत और सकारात्मकता का स्रोत बन गया. 

सोनाली ने कहा, "अब कुछ स्थितियों में उसने अपनी भूमिका बदल दी है, अभिभावक की तरह मेरी देखभाल करने लगा है और याद दिलाता है कि मुझे क्या करना चाहिए और क्या नहीं करना चाहिए."

 

In the words of my favourite author Isabel Allende, “We don't even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward. In times of tragedy, of war, of necessity, people do amazing things. The human capacity for survival and renewal is awesome.” The outpouring of love I’ve received in the last few days has been so overwhelming… and I’m especially grateful to those of you who shared stories of your experiences in dealing with cancer, whether it was your own or of loved ones. Your stories have given me an extra dosage of strength and courage, and more importantly, the knowledge that I’m not alone. Each day comes with its own challenges and victories and so for now, I’m taking this #OneDayAtATime. The only thing I’m trying to be consistent about is maintaining a positive outlook... literally #SwitchOnTheSunshine - it’s my way of dealing with this. Sharing my journey is also part of this process... I can only hope it reminds you that all is not lost and that someone, somewhere understands what you’re going through. 🤞🌞 Thank you @tomoarakawa for making this a chic transition from long to short!

A post shared by Sonali Bendre (@iamsonalibendre) on Jul 10, 2018 at 12:20am PDT

भारत में हर तीसरी औरत को होता है यहां दर्द, क्या है वजह

प्रशंसकों को परवरिश संबंधी कुछ सलाह देते हुए सोनाली ने कहा कि बच्चों को इस तरह के हालात से वाकिफ कराना चाहिए. उन्हें इन सबसे परे रखने के बजाय उनके साथ समय बिताकर इसमें शामिल करने की जरूरत है.

#monsoonsession: कुछ यूं लें बारिश का मजा कि FLU न बने सेहत के लिए सजा